Raising a Reader

Over the years, study after study has proven the importance of emphasizing reading in the lives of young children.  The benefits are numerous and varied, and you can learn about just a few of them here. You have no doubt heard the advice before, but here are four simple steps to raising your child as a reader.

1. Read aloud to your child

If you don’t already, now is a great time to start.  Regardless of their age, reading aloud to your child every day will make a huge impact.  Babies begin to learn early language by hearing a parent read.  Toddlers and preschoolers increase their vocabulary, which helps them excel in the classroom.  Elementary-aged children can listen to your voice to learn about fluency, pace, inflection, and emphasis as they begin to read aloud.  Even preteens and young teenagers stand to benefit from reading aloud if they’ll still let you (many will!); reading together as your child gets older is an opportunity for bonding and to discuss a wide variety of topics.

The key?  Make reading aloud part of your routine.  Many families squeeze it in at bedtime, but find a time that works for you.  Mixing it up can keep reading fun.  Explore picture books and chapter books, Caldecott and Newbery winners, or delve into an author study.  Make sure the books are something you both enjoy and you will both look forward to the experience.

2. Let your child see you reading

Specifically, let your child see you reading for pleasure.  As a busy parent, it can be easy to let enjoyable reading slip to the wayside, but modeling the habit will help instill it in your child.

One simple way to make this happen?  Set aside some family quiet reading time on the weekends.  Everyone can get comfy, gather up their books, and sit together while doing their own reading.  This may be tough to do in the beginning, especially for little ones, but with some practice you may all come to love this special ritual.  Two pro tips: grab some snacks and use a visual timer.

3. Support their gradual independence

At some point (often during first grade but there is plenty of variability) your child should begin reading to themselves for 20-30 minutes each night.  As with any other skill, this doesn’t happen overnight, and takes lots of support and incremental steps toward independence.

If your child isn’t reading yet or is resistant to reading, don’t push it.  The goal is to keep reading fun.  If you have specific questions about your child’s progress, their teacher is your best resource.

If your child is starting to read on their own, take it slow and don’t expect too much at once.  Some ideas:

• Read a familiar book (rhyming books work best for this).  Point to the last word on a page without saying it and let your child chime in.

• Take turns.  To prevent fatigue, try alternating pages.  You read a page, your child reads a page, and so on.  

• Utilize a combination of read aloud and read alone time.  You may read one picture book or a chapter, then send your child off to bed to read to themselves until it’s time to go to sleep.

• Designate specific read aloud and read alone days of the week.

• Remember that everyone has tired and grumpy days.  Sometimes we all need a break!

Another great way to support early readers is to suggest strategies or point out when you notice they are using them.  Pictures can help us figure out words we don’t know.  Breaking a word into chunks is another helpful strategy.  Asking ourselves, “Does that make sense?” is a good idea.  Even the act of noticing when we’ve made a mistake, and going back to reread is the sign of a great reader.

4. Help them discover books they love

The best way to raise a reader is to surround them with books they love.

Some parents may balk at this.  After all, do we really want to encourage those books about bathroom humor, or graphic novels that have more illustrations than words?  Yes!  We do!  Many graphic novels today and visually stunning but also great examples of a newer style of literature.  As for the potty joke/unicorn puppy/tv character books?  Treat them like you might treat candy.  Explain to your child that we all enjoy a little junk once in a while and that’s okay, but we need to balance our reading diet just like we balance our food diet.

What is your child interested in?  Nonfiction is often a great place to start.  There are books written for all interests and it’s often easy to find them at all reading levels.  As time goes on, you may notice your child gravitating toward a particular genre or author.  Go with the flow!  Their interests will change over time, but we can all remember a time when we couldn’t stop ourselves from soaking up every book we could in a series.

Introducing our children to a wide variety of genres is a good idea.  Think beyond fact and fantasy!  Try out some realistic fiction, historical fiction, poetry, folktales, myths and legends, or even a play script.  

There are lots of great ways to keep your collection fresh without breaking the bank.  Visit your local library, check out second-hand bookstores, have a book swap with friends, or organize a used book sale.  

We hope these tips have been helpful.  Do you have any you would add to the list?

Wishing you all many beautiful years of reading with your child!

5 Fun Ways to Bring the Outdoors Indoors

It’s no surprise that we tend to spend more time indoors during the winter than we do during the warmer months.  While your kids may have a blast playing outside some of the time, they will inevitably get cold at some point and need to come inside.  The good news is that doesn’t mean their experiences with the outdoors needs to stop!

Here we share five fun and simple ways to bring nature inside.

1. Snow play for the littlest ones

We are full advocates for the Scandinavian saying: “There’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing.”  Everyone has their limits, however, and you may not be keen on taking your infant out in sub-freezing temperatures.  

The solution?  Bring a little bit of the white stuff inside for them to explore.  This idea is really as simple as it gets, but can provide your baby or toddler with an interesting and enriching experience.  Grab a tray, a sturdy bowl, or even a heavy baking dish, and put just a few handfuls of snow inside.  Set it on a floor surface that you don’t mind getting a little wet and invite your child to explore.  A large bath towel underneath can make the whole experience a little more comfortable for them and make cleanup even easier for you.

(In the meantime, you can send older kids outside to try out some of these cool snow experiments.)

2. Plant a few seeds

It may not be prime gardening season, but the warmth inside should be enough for this fun activity.  Keep in mind the point is just to grow something; don’t worry about producing edible vegetables or gorgeous blooms.  Gather a few materials:

• A container - preferably a small pot with adequate drainage, but anything similar will do

• Some soil - you can pick up potting soil at your local garden center if the ground outside your house is frozen

• Seeds!  These can really be anything.  Perhaps you have some leftover bean seeds from last year’s garden.  Maybe you have some dried lentils in your pantry.  You could even save a few seeds from that pepper you cut up for dinner.

Find a warm, sunny spot in your home and have your child help you plant, water, and observe the seed.  You can read books together about plants, research the specific plant you’re growing, or even tie in some math with measurement and data collection.

Feeling inspired?  This is a great time of year to begin planning your spring garden!  Children will love helping to draw out plans and look through seed catalogs.

3. Create natural tablescapes

Everyone appreciates a beautiful centerpiece.  Why spend money on flowers wrapped in plastic when you can find beauty in your own backyard?  On a not-so-chilly day, take a walk with your child and collect beautiful pieces to arrange.  Using a vase (or even a mason jar or glass milk bottle), proudly display what you find.

Keep an eye out for:

• Interesting branches (birch and dogwood have unexpected color, but regular brown colored branches are just as pretty!)

• Evergreen foliage - pine, holly, and other types of shrubs and bushes can give your home a beautiful green look

• Dried berries and flowers

• Pinecones

Once inside you can add candles, ribbon, or whatever else you have lying around.  Ask your kids to come up with ideas, too!

4. Make something for the animals

Ice, snow, and frigid temperatures can make finding food difficult for wild animals.  Have fun making treats for them while also cultivating a sense of generosity with your children.  

Remember covering pinecones with peanut butter and birdseed when you were a child?  Birds still love them.  Try this fun and super simple activity with your own children!  Find whatever string or yarn you have and hang them from nearby bushes and trees.

Another fun project: pop up a big batch of popcorn, and using a needle and thread, make a long string to hang.  This activity is great for older children, and as a bonus they can snack while they create.

Looking for more ideas?  Check out this site.

Wondering whether it’s a good idea to feed the birds?  Here’s what the Audubon Society has to say about it. 

5. Set up a bird watching station

All those bird treats you made together?  Put them on double duty: set them up in a spot where your children can see the birds out the window and you can create hours of entertainment.

If you happen to have a window that looks out toward trees or bushes, it may just be the perfect spot to try and attract local birds.  Set up some bird feeders or homemade bird treats and wait for them to come.  Meanwhile, set the scene inside as well.  A comfortable chair or pillow on the floor will encourage children to sit and watch.  Visit your local library and borrow a few bird-specific field guides to help with identification.  Other fun items to leave nearby: a pair of binoculars, a sketch pad and colored pencils, or a journal.  

Enjoy!

What does your family do to appreciate nature during the winter?  

Work or Play? A Peek Inside the Montessori Classroom

You know Montessori classrooms are different than most.  You’ve heard the rumors: children run around doing whatever they please.  It’s all play and no work.  Or perhaps you’ve heard the opposite: our structures are so rigid we stifle creativity and natural childhood behavior.

What’s it really like?

We can practically guarantee that once you step inside a classroom for yourself, sit quietly in a corner, and observe the children and adults at work, your impressions will be transformed.  We encourage parents to do so whenever possible; the children are used to visitors and we have tips on how your presence can be unobtrusive to them but informative for you.  We hope you’ll schedule a visit soon if you’ve never been, or even if it’s just been a while.

In the meantime, this post will give you some idea of what you might see in a typical, high fidelity Montessori classroom.

Arrival

From the moment they step in the door, expectations are different for Montessori children, even as young as our toddlers.  Children are responsible for hanging their own bags and coats on hooks.  They learn to change their own shoes, with most classrooms requiring that children wear either slippers or a special pair of shoes designated for indoor school use only.  This is done in part to keep our classrooms clean, but also to give children a sense that their classroom feels more comfortable and home-like.

Guides greet students upon their arrival.  They often make a point of shaking a child’s hand, looking them in the eye, and saying their name along with a friendly hello.  By doing this, we are intentionally modeling polite human interactions.  Before long, the children learn how to greet us back, and they are even able to apply this skill outside of school.

The Work Period

Also called the morning work cycle, this period of time is a hallmark of the Montessori approach.  We believe that children need a longer stretch of time to involve themselves deeply in independent work, so we honor this need by providing an uninterrupted block of time each morning.

How much time?  That depends on the age of the child.  Typically, for children ages 3 and up, the work period is three hours long.  It’s not quite so long for younger children, and older children may have a second work period in the afternoon.  

During this time children work independently while guides give small group or independent lessons.  Sometimes it may appear that a child is playing, and while that is true, certain types of play are critical to learning.  It is also important to note that Dr. Montessori developed her educational materials to appeal to children, so what may look like a simple puzzle could actually be a manipulative biology diagram.  What looks like pretty colored beads are, in fact, tools for exploring complex mathematical concepts.

Montessori children are able to make a lot of choices during this time.  We allow freedom of movement: that is, they may sit where they like, stand and walk around the room if their bodies require a break, and use the restroom safely without needing an adult’s permission.  We provide a range of seating options as well.  Some children prefer to work alone or with others, some like to sit at a table or on the floor.  Adults appreciate having choices while they work, and we believe children should be afforded the same respect.

What types of work might you see?  You may be surprised to see even very young children working on the following subjects:

• Math

• Language

• Biology

• Geography

• Practical life skills

• Sensory refinement (up to age 6)

• Geometry

Socializing

Montessori education takes the perspective that we must nurture the whole child.  This is a popular concept with parents and teachers across a wide variety of settings, but Montessori schools have structures built into their programs that allow for deeper exploration and support of the social self.

The aspects of choice are one way we support children’s social development.  Rather than assigning seats or requiring children to work alone or in pairings that are predetermined by adults, we generally let children choose if they would rather work independently or cooperatively, and with whom they would like to work.  That being said, in any group of people, some personalities work well together, while others do not; we help guide children to differentiate between what makes a positive complementary work partner for them, and what constitutes a fun (and perhaps silly) friendship that can be developed outside the work period.

As children grow older, they begin to place a stronger emphasis on friendships.  The process of figuring out what healthy friendships should look and feel like is a major work of children in the elementary years.  Attachments form, and children come to rely on the company of one another.  Of course, another reality of these years is that all children will face social conflict at some point or another.  

One benefit of a Montessori environment is that the guides are able to set aside time and space to help children navigate conflict.  We teach mediation strategies, inclusivity, and conflict resolution.  We are able to assist children both proactively and reactively.  We often use stories to teach children important lessons about social skills.  Role play is another tool used in classrooms when negative patterns begin to form; when children are able to have fun and remove themselves personally from an experience, they can learn positive approaches to resolving common dilemmas. 

The Guide’s Role

Another often surprising element of the Montessori classroom is the role our guides take.  To begin with, they are typically referred to as guides, rather than teachers, as we believe the name is a far better descriptor of the task.  Instead of feeding children a stream of information we expect them to internalize, we lay a path before them, open the door, and give them the tools to explore and learn.

In the primary years (ages 3-6), lessons are usually given individually.  This allows the guide to give their full attention to the child before them, and to honor their individual needs.  In the elementary years, lessons are typically given to small groups of children, honoring their developmental desire to work alongside their peers.

Another delicate task of the Montessori guide is to know when to step in and assist a child, and when to stand back and allow them to find a solution themselves.  Generally speaking, we tend to take the latter approach.  We believe that children are capable of much more than we often give them credit for, and given the opportunity, they will rise to the occasion.  This approach helps build resilience and confidence.

Lastly, the guide’s job is to observe.  We watch the children in our care to learn which skills they have mastered, which they are progressing in, and which they may require additional support with.  Though we may not always intervene, we notice what they are doing, both academically and socially.  We take copious notes to inform our practice, record their progress, and to share our findings with parents.

Montessori guides don’t consider themselves the center of the classroom.  We are merely there to support the learning of the children.

Still curious?  Good!  Call us today to schedule a time to observe.  See a Montessori classroom in action for yourself.  We know it will be an amazing experience.  

Montessori Basics: The Language Curriculum

Have you ever wondered how Montessori guides teach children about language?  Parents are often astounded when they observe children learning to read at a young age in our schools.  What’s the secret?

There’s no secret - we’re happy to share our methods!  Read on to learn more about our approach, how we align our teaching with a child’s natural development, and what the progression looks like as children get older.

Early Language Activities

Children’s language development begins long before they enter the classroom.  Dr. Montessori asserted that children from birth to age 6 were in the age of the absorbent mind.  During this time they are able to learn language simply by living around others who are using language.  Montessori classrooms incorporate both spoken and written language into the environment to further enrich this early learning.

In our primary classrooms we teach children songs and poems so that they may hear and experience language in a fun and playful way that appeals to them.  We encourage parents to do the same!  Share poems from your childhood with your children and discover new ones together.  Sing your favorite songs from when you were little, or enjoy kid-friendly tunes from musicians such as Raffi or Tom Chapin.

Montessori guides introduce children to as much vocabulary as possible in their early years.  This may start with naming objects around the classroom, but will also expand toward specialized nomenclature.  Children learn the names of the continents, plant and animal names, and specific terms that apply to areas of interest.  These vocabulary words are spoken and shown in written form. 

Writing

As you may have guessed, writing starts earlier in Montessori classrooms than in many other settings.  Consider the goal of writing: to visually communicate one’s ideas with others using standardized symbols.  This is actually separate from the ability to hold a pencil and form strings of letters, words, and sentences on a piece of paper.

Once a child has a basic understanding of most of the letter sounds, they begin to use a material called the moveable alphabet.  Exactly what it sounds like, the moveable alphabet is a box containing sorted wooden letters.  Children lay the letters out to write words, and eventually sentences.  At this stage we do not expect children to conform to conventional spelling, but rather we allow what is often referred to as inventive spelling.  “I love my mom” may look like “I luv mi mom”.

Montessori classrooms use many materials to help children strengthen their finger muscles in preparation for the physical act of handwriting beginning at age 3, or arguably even earlier.  Our experience has taught us that children are ready to express themselves in writing before they are ready to start writing in the traditional sense.  That pencil-to-paper writing usually starts in kindergarten, though it varies with individual children.

Reading

One beautiful material that you have likely seen is called the sandpaper letters.  The letters are used to teach both reading and writing.  

It’s important to note that when Montessori guides begin teaching children about letters, our focus is on the sounds the letters make and not so much their names.  This means we do not teach the alphabet song, because knowing the names of letters isn’t really helpful in learning how to read.  That’s not to say there is no value in such learning; it will certainly come in handy when learning to alphabetize, or when talking about letters when they are a bit older.  We just want parents to know that if you want to continue the work we do in our classrooms, consider using a letter’s most commonly used sound when referring to it.  

An example: when a Montessori child learns to spell cat, they will say, “k-ah-t” rather than “see-ay-tee”.

Object boxes are used to help children learn to read as well.  A box labeled with the letter p may contain tiny toy versions of a pig, pot, pin, etc.  Eventually, children are able to match the objects with label cards.

Much of our reading work is done while teaching children other subjects.  For example, if they are learning about mammals, they will read lots of text at their level about mammals.  

There are also special series of books used by many Montessorians, including Miss Rhonda’s Readers (created by a Montessori guide) and Bob Books.  Guides typically prefer that families not use these same books at home.  Young children are often able to memorize text, and if they have been exposed to the same books at home and school, it can be difficult for guides to have an accurate observation of the child’s true decoding skills.  Check with your child’s guide if you’re curious or would like some advice on what books to read at home.

Card materials are also used as children progress, allowing guides to help children isolate specific sounds and blends.  One series of cards/lessons may focus on the various ways to make a long a sound.  One color of cards displays words containing ai, another will contain ay, and yet another will teach children about words with the silent e.

Word Study

This area of study includes a wide variety of skills and begins once a child has begun to read; some of the earlier lessons are given during the final (kindergarten) year of primary, but many are given during the first two years of lower elementary.  The guide will give the child a lesson teaching the skill.  In the days and weeks following, children practice the skill independently using special card materials.  The skills include:

• Classification

• Alphabetizing

• Compound words

• Synonyms

• Antonyms

• Prefixes

• Suffixes

Grammar

Grammar is taught early and in what we call a spiraling curriculum; that is, we circle back on the same content as the child gets older, building on previous knowledge and giving more depth to their understanding.  Parts of speech are taught in a very specific order, and each one has a corresponding symbol that children use in many activities.

Beginning in the final year of primary, children typically learn about nouns, articles, and verbs, as well as their corresponding symbols.  This helps them to understand the core parts of our sentences and gives them an introduction to grammar in a way that appeals to them. 

Sometime during that final year in primary or the first year of lower elementary, children are introduced to grammar through what we call the function of words.  Traditionally, a model of a farm, complete with animals, is used to guide children through the process.  Again, they begin by learning that nouns are naming words, and they name each animal and feature of the farm.  They then go on to learn the corresponding articles, followed by all other parts of speech, including adjectives, verbs, adverbs, pronouns, conjunctions, prepositions, and interjections.

Once a child has learned the functions of words, they will move on to the Montessori grammar command cards.  Knowing that children learn by doing, these cards give children specific directions to physically follow so that they may experience the words for themselves.  

Another classic Montessori activity involves the use of colored wooden grammar boxes.  Children use cards to recreate sentences, word by word, and sort the words by various parts of speech.

There are many extensions to grammar work that Montessori children enjoy.  Some will write their own sentences and use colored pencils to label each word with its corresponding grammar symbol.  Others enjoy using grammar strips: a material that shows a series of grammar symbols which students must use a guide to write a sentence with that particular pattern.

Sentence Analysis

Going beyond grammar, elementary-aged children learn to analyze sentences.  This begins simply with subjects, verbs, direct, and indirect objects.  As children get older and have a better grasp on language, the work extends considerably.

Children in upper elementary classes learn about complex sentence structures.  This includes structures like predicate adjectives and nominatives, attributive adjectives, various types of phrases and clauses, and many more.

For seasoned Montessori parents: did you learn anything new from this article?  New families: what do you find the most interesting, or what do you still have questions about?  As always, we believe in the power of observation, and we invite you all to schedule a time to sit and observe in one of our classrooms.

Happy New Year!

New Year’s Eve can be a really fun night for adults and kids alike.  There’s something special about a fresh start and finding ways to celebrate as a family has the potential to establish traditions and make memories.

Whether you already have plans or not, read on for some fun facts and ideas!

Go out or stay in?

One time-honored way to celebrate the new year is to hire a babysitter and head off to a party.  This can be a fun way for busy parents to reconnect with a partner, catch up with friends, and have a little fun.

If you plan to spend the night with your kids, you still have options: stay home for a night of celebrating or attend local festivities.  Many cities and towns have their own first night celebrations - if you have never been, you are in for a treat!  Activities and sights might include live music, ice sculptures, street performers, face painters, and of course, plenty of tasty food.  Some events even include a fireworks display.  One benefit of taking your younger children to a first night event is that they can participate in the festivities, and still get home for a reasonable bedtime.  

One last (really great) option is to stay home for the night and celebrate.  This is a great idea for all ages; little ones get the rest they need, older kids can invite friends over to join in the fun, and there’s a whole lot less pressure on the adults.  Add in a few games and snacks, and maybe watch the ball drop on the TV, and the night will surely be a success.  We share more fun ideas toward the end of this post.

Traditions around the world

People across the globe celebrate the new year in a variety of fascinating ways.  Here are just some of the many traditions:

• In some parts of Brazil, it’s customary to head to the beach and jump over seven waves for good luck in the coming year.

• Buddhist temples in Japan ring their bells to celebrate. The interesting part is they ring them 108 times, to symbolize the number of human desires - which lead to human suffering - in order to alleviate some of that suffering. Eating soba noodles is another tasty tradition!

• One of the more famous international traditions takes place in Spain, where twelve grapes are eaten during the twelve strokes of the clock at midnight. The catch is you must finish them all before the clock finishes chiming for good luck during each month of the coming year.

• The Dutch eat a donut-like dessert called olie bollen. Its ring shape is meant to symbolize coming full circle.

• Many places, like the United States and France, look to champagne as their drink of choice on New Year’s Eve. People in parts of the United Kingdom enjoy Wassail (a type of hot mulled cider) instead. Russians like champagne, but they write a wish on a piece of paper, burn it, and toss it into a glass of bubbly that they must then drink.

• In Greece, a special sweet bread is made to be eaten at midnight. A single coin is baked within, and the person who gets the piece with the coin is considered lucky. Greeks also hand an onion from the doors and wake their children in the morning by tapping them with it!

• In the Philippines, circles are important and lucky; people eat plenty of round fruits for New Year’s to bring prosperity.

• In Denmark, people save up all their old and chipped plates and dishes to throw at each other’s front doors on New Year’s Eve. The more shards on your doorstep in the morning, the better. In South Africa they throw old appliances out the window.

• Red is a lucky color in Chinese culture, and many families make sure their front door is painted red for the new year.

• The Swiss drop dollops of whipped cream on the floor - intentionally - to wish richness into the new year.

• In Estonia, eating is serious business when ringing in the new year. Seven, nine, and twelve are all lucky numbers, and you must choose one of the numbers and eat that many times.

• In Finland, tin is melted and dropped into water. The shapes the hardened tin create are meant to represent what the new year will bring.

• The Scottish call their celebration Hogmanay, which involves swinging balls of fire, enthusiastic parades, and a special tradition regarding whoever steps first over the threshold of a home in the new year.

Fun family ideas

So you’ve decided to stay in and have fun together as a family?  Looking for ideas that will help make memories?  Look no further…

Food!

Eating tasty snacks is half the fun when it comes to celebrating.  Here are a few ideas to help break away from your typical nightly routine.

• Appetizers for dinner - brainstorm everyone’s favorite snacks, make up a bunch of plates, and leave them out to munch on throughout the evening. Think cheese and crackers, veggies and hummus, cut fruit, chips and dip, or perhaps something a little more fancy.

• Cook a fancy meal together. Flip through your cookbooks and choose something that sounds good to everyone. Even the youngest children will have fun mixing and measuring. Set the table, light some candles, and feast in great company.

• Mix up some mocktails. A little juice plus a bit of seltzer, with a few pomegranate seeds tossed in, and you have something special.

Fun!

Pass the hours away enjoying each other’s company and having a few laughs.

• Break out the board games. With the whole night ahead of you, what’s the rush? Whether it’s CandyLand or Monopoly, or a silly made-up card game, your children will remember this quality time spent together.

• Have a movie marathon. Rewatch your favorites or try something new. Even better? Share one of your childhood favorites with your kids.

• Make New Year’s Eve crowns, using whatever you have on hand. It can be as simple as cut paper and markers, or you can add stickers, glitter, or whatever else you and your children come up with.

• Plan out some family fun for the coming year. Set goals, dream about vacations, or figure out what projects you want to do together around the house.

Countdown!

If you plan on staying up until midnight, figure out a fun way to ring in the new year.  Countdown from ten together, add in some noisemakers, and shout out Happy New Year!

May 2020 be a great year for us all.  

7 Little Ways to Create a Montessori Home Environment

Many families of young children are turning to Montessori methods when it comes to parenting.  After all, it’s one approach that honors the child as an autonomous being and gives them the respect they are due.  But how can we make space for our children in our homes without the place becoming one giant toy bin?  This list of seven helpful tips will get you started on the right track.

1. Have a kid-friendly shelf or cabinet in the kitchen.

This is one of the simplest ways to encourage your child to be independent and show that you trust them.  Starting when your children are toddlers and continuing until they are able to reach and use everything the adults do, set aside a small cabinet or drawer in your kitchen just for them.  This is where you will keep child sized plates, bowls, cups, silverware, and perhaps even a few cloth napkins.  This will allow your child to get what they need whenever they need it; you won’t need to stop what you are doing to help them, and they can feel good about doing something for themselves.

Want to take it a step further?  Keep pre portioned snacks in the cabinet for your child to access whenever they want.  Some families also designate an area of the refrigerator for this purpose, along with a small pitcher containing water or milk that little hands can easily pour themselves.

2. Consider a few minor additions to your entryway.

Getting out the door in the morning can be one of the most rushed and sometimes stressful times of day for families of young children.  A few quick additions to your entryway can help make everything run a bit more smoothly.

Consider your child’s height and hang one or two hooks near the door just for them.  Keep a small box or bin that they can toss their shoes into, thus keeping them contained, tidy, and easy to find when they need them.  We have even seen some families hang a small mirror at child height in the same area.  Taking these steps will help build responsibility, keep your home organized, and ease the frantic pace of many of our mornings.

3. Put most of the toys away.

This recent study covers the scientific reasoning behind why less is more.  That said, it isn’t easy.  Even if you are mindful of not buying your child too many toys (a feat in itself), there are always gifts from family members, party favors, and so many unpredictable little treasures that kids collect.

How can we manage all that stuff?

When your child is at an age where they can comprehend the ideas, it’s good to talk to them about waste and consumption, then ask for their help in working to manage it all.  Until then, observe your child at play, determine what they actually use or enjoy, then rotate toys according to what you notice.  Avoid the bottomless toy box and opt instead for using low shelves as storage.  Items are easier to see and manage that way.

4. Keep baskets of books handy.

Reading is great for children in so many ways, so keeping books handy wherever you are is important.  It can even be fun to make your selections.  Some ideas:

• Keep a basket of seasonal books in the corner of your living room.

• Stack your potty training books in the bathroom.

• Your child loves dinosaurs? Check some dino books out from the library and keep them in a bag in the car so they’re always on hand (for trips, waiting rooms, an older sibling's soccer game…)

• Basically, anywhere your child spends time and there isn’t a bookshelf nearby, collect up a few books and tuck them within reach.

5. Build independence into children’s bedrooms.

One of the earliest ways to build independence into your child’s bedrooms is with your choice of bed when they are infants.  Many Montessori families choose to use a floor bed.  If the rest of the child’s room is safe, this allows them freedom of movement when they wake.  Many babies and toddlers will wake up and crawl/walk around the room, keeping themselves occupied with their toys until their parents wake up and come to get them.  The floor bed can be implemented whenever the parents feel comfortable giving it a try.  If your little one starts crawling out of the crib but isn’t quite ready for the height of a toddler or regular bed, a simple solution is to just lay the mattress on the floor until they are ready for the next stage.

Another area to keep in mind: your child’s access to their clothing.  Older toddlers and preschool aged children can begin selecting their own clothes.  By making a limited number of choices available to them, you can ensure they will wear something appropriate for the weather while still giving them the empowering ability to decide for themselves.

6. Keep color schemes and decor simple and natural.

Depending on our own childhoods and other factors, sometimes we feel like we need to decorate children’s spaces in bright colors.  The truth is, we all function better in calming environments.  There’s no need to spend lots of money to replace what you already have, but consider the following swaps:

• Paint over bright walls with a more neutral color.

• Opt for wood, glass, metal, and natural fibers over plastics.

• Framed art (inexpensive prints or thrift store finds) or photos can replace cartoon posters.

7. Make space for your children.

It all really comes down to shifting our perspective.  Our children are human beings who are worthy of living in a home that serves them and their needs.  The key is balance.  Should our children’s things take over the entire house?  Definitely not!  (You live there, too, after all.)  Small adjustments in each room children spend time can make a huge difference in their lives.  

Do you already implement some of these ideas in your home?  How has it worked out for your family?  Do you have other suggestions to share with families who are looking to make their home more Montessori friendly?